kickbacks
Kickback events were created for us to hit the pause button on life and carve out the time to relax, reflect, and enjoy who we are with the people who celebrate us.
When was the last time you took a break?
It wasn’t the five minutes you took to find the recipe for dinner. Or the drive to your last appointment. Or the bathroom break you took in the middle of your work day.
It wasn’t even until 11 pm that you stopped thinking about your to-do list for the next day, worrying about when you need to set the alarm, mask up, and do it all over again.
that's not a break, sis.
You need time to slow down, focus on what matters most to you, and take time to reacquaint yourself with your own brilliance.
And before your heart starts racing and you start thinking that this is some kind of event where we’re going to ask you to do more by adding to your plate, stop. Pause. And let me reassure you that I will do no such thing.
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This isn’t more that you need to do.
This is an opportunity to simply be who you need to be.
a held space for self care
Self care. It’s one of those words that gets tossed out like Halloween candy. Yes, we all need self-care. Everyone deserves a little.
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But when you really think about it, it comes around just as often as Halloween itself. Once in a while, your loved ones set you aside. They gift you a spa card and tell you to take the day.
you take it.
and it's great...
For the day, you really do get to relax and enjoy yourself and maybe sip bubbly while you’re at it.
But that feeling doesn't last long.
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Now, look, I’m not against a spa day or two. Your girl loves a good pampering but it's only part of the self-care equation.
Insert Design Your Soft Life Kickbacks.
It's a space where we come together to slow down and make lasting connections with Black women in your city.
Kickbacks are the self-care treat your soul has wanted to indulge on.
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"For the seeds we planted, the wounds healed, and the journeys to come...I am grateful, I am hopeful, and I am blessed to be basking in the divine light of our magic."
April Walker
