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DEAR BLACK GIRL WHO BLACK GIRLS WITH BLACK GIRLS,

welcome to your

soft life...

Where Black women who are saving the world come to find community and lean into an abundance of softness and ease. 

INTENTION

JOY

FREEDOM

SELF-CARE

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Black women are so much more than our pain, struggles, and trauma.

 

We are deserving of lives full of love, tenderness, and radical acceptance. We are deserving of soft spaces that are safe to show up as our layered, vulnerable, and authentic selves.

 

This is that place.

the sistahood community

It’s exhausting, isn’t it?

Being yourself, which you've been told, is a little too much for some people.

Too loud, too bold, too opinionated.

And with all the “too-ness,” you end up doing the same thing we all do: Nod, smile, and slip on a mask to keep yourself safe. 

Let me reassure you:

You are enough.

Loud enough. Bold enough. Being enough.

This is your invitation to celebrate yourself

👏🏾AS 👏🏾YOU 👏🏾ARE. and join the supportive sisterhood who are doing the same for themselves.

recharge your energy

Ever noticed the transformative power of words? When you declare, “I am Free” it's not just a statement; it's a revelation. Saying it to yourself embeds it deep within, turning belief into reality. With every repetition, your brain embraces this truth more firmly, letting your heart flourish in its glow.

In our Sisterhood Community, affirmations are our heartbeat. Ready to find out which affirmation breathes life into you? Take our "What Affirmation Recharges Your Energy" quiz and share your results.

design your soft life

Hey change-maker, you’re showing up with the plan to make waves, but the harder you work, the more you feel like you’re becoming a shell of yourself.


Before you know it, you’re looking in the mirror thinking, “I don’t recognize who I see.”


Sis, you can change the world and still make room for joy and (yes) ease.

 

That badass woman you used to see?

She is still here. Inside. And she’s telling you to remember what’s important.

Your life. Your freedom to be. Your soul.


Let's find her, together.

The Soul-Full Experience

When was the last time you did something for yourself? 


I’m sure even asking that, you’re probably on the other side of the screen thinking 
“Just the other day I went grocery shopping. A girl’s gotta eat, after all.”

 

I’m not talking about the necessity of putting food on the table. I’m talking about the other necessity you often forget:

Feeding your soul = Filling your cup = pouring into yourself so you can pour into others.

 

Leave behind the frustration of yesterday. Drop the worry of tomorrow. This is about today -- NOW. 


The present to yourself so you can restore who you are, and come back ready to show up authentically in every area of your life.

kickback and be

We live in a world where we’re constantly asked to show up for others. 


To take all that life has thrown at you and do it with a smile on your face. To be the best parent, the best partner, the best friend.

 

Sis, putting yourself last is played out.

That’s why I created a space where we can all hang up the metaphorical hats and allow you to pick what what's most important: YOU. 

Join us in fellowship with one another as we support dope Black woman owned businesses in your city.

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Crystle Johnson founder of Design Your Soft Life

hey sis, it’s crystle

Like you, I’ve raked myself over hot coals trying to fix all the things. All things DEI, all things life, all things relationships, work, business, and, and, and.

Trust me, I understand the obligation you feel to shoulder the world's problems on your own.

 

But here’s the thing: You can't save the world, if you haven't saved yourself first.

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